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Rebuilding Faith as Relationship — Not Performance
You Didn’t Lose God.
You Lost the Framework That Taught You How to Relate to Him.
If faith feels heavy, confusing, or distant…
If church left wounds instead of wholeness…
If you still love God but no longer trust how to engage Him—
You’re not broken.
You’re not late.
And God is not disappointed in you.
This space exists for people who are done with religious performance but still longing for real relationship with God — without pressure, intermediaries, or pretending.
A Clear, Gentle Orientation
I help believers who feel spiritually burned out, disillusioned with church, or unsure how to hear God again rediscover a direct, relational way of walking with Him.
Not louder faith.
Not better behavior.
But honest conversation with God—again.
When Faith Becomes Heavy, Something Is Off
Most people don’t drift because they stopped caring about God.
They drift because faith slowly became something to manage instead of a relationship to live.
Prayer turned into filtered speech.
Discernment was outsourced.
Obedience became performance.
And over time, anxiety, confusion, and grief crept in.
The solution isn’t trying harder.
It’s restoring relationship.
What I Know and Believe
At the center of everything I do is a simple conviction:
God is relational. And He still speaks personally.
That’s why I became a God Talks™ Certified Coach.
I use and have adapted the God Talks™ framework developed by Ed Rush, to help spiritually tired believers learn to recognize God’s voice, heal from religious confusion, and walk in daily clarity.
God Talks is a simple, relational structure to help people have direct, honest conversations with God.
Many God Talks coaches approaches focus on activation—identity, authority, calling, and outcomes. That work serves people who are ready to move forward.
My work begins earlier.
For those coming out of religious pressure or spiritual harm, the question isn’t “What is God saying?”
It’s “Is it safe to listen again?”
This restoration-first posture — the way that I approach God Talks Coaching — is about rebuilding trust in the relationship itself before clarity, purpose, or outcomes ever come into view.
Same God.
Same truth.
Different starting point.
There Isn’t One Right Entry Point — But There Is a Coherent Path
People arrive here in different seasons.
So the journey is designed to meet you where you are—not rush you where you’re not.
Step 1 — Language, Relief, and Reframing
My New Book…
“Out of Religion & Into Relationship:
Connecting With God Beyond The Church Walls”
The book helps you:
• Separate God from the systems that misrepresented Him
• Understand spiritual burnout without shame
• Recover language for relationship beyond religion
For many, this is where clarity first arrives—not answers, but relief.
It’s a clear, honest roadmap for believers who feel spiritually tired or confused. Discover the difference between religion and relationship, heal from church hurt, and hear how God actually speaks directly to you.
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Step 2 — Rewiring How You Relate to God
5-Day Spiritual Mindset Makeover (SM²)
Once the language is there, your internal reflexes still need time to catch up.
SM² helps you:
• Unlearn fear-based spiritual patterns
• Shift how you approach God internally
• Practice honest, pressure-free engagement
This isn’t about doing more.
It’s about relating differently.
SM2 is a focused process that helps you retrain the internal narratives shaped by religion.
Move from fear, confusion, and self-doubt into clarity, confidence, and identity.
Step 3 — You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
Explore “EK Tribes” A New Kingdom Community
Where believers move from confusion to clarity — together.
Healing and discernment rarely happen well in isolation—but they shouldn’t feel managed either.
EK Tribes is a low-pressure community for people:
• Rebuilding trust after church hurt
• Learning to stay present with God
• Wanting connection without hierarchy or performance
EK is short for “Ekklesia Kuriakos” which translates from the ancient Greek as “the called out ones who belong to the Lord.” We are a community of formerly disenchanted and disillusioned church-goers who have left behind staid religious dogma and stale tradition to journey together in the fullness and freedom that Christ delivered to us through the New Covenant He came and died to give us.
EK Tribes is a supportive, Spirit-led community where you can:
• practice hearing God consistently
• heal from church hurt in a safe, grace-based space
• build friendships with others who “get it”
• learn practical rhythms of peace and presence
• grow into your identity without judgment
This is not another church.
No fixing.
No forcing.
Just shared presence and patience.
It’s a return to relationship.
Step 4 — Personalized Integration
EDGe (God Talks) Coaching
“Engage Directly with God everyday”
For those ready to go deeper, my “EDGe Coaching” programs (using an adapted God Talks framework) helps you
• Rebuild discernment with confidence
• Navigate anxiety, purpose, and transition relationally
• Integrate faith into real life without pressure
The goal isn’t dependence on coaching.
It’s independence in relationship with God.
My programs are designed to help you hear God’s voice, heal from religious wounds, and live in confidence with Spirit-led clarity. Whether in your personal walk, your relationships, or even your business, EDGe Coaching helps you align every part of life with God’s perspective.
If You’re Hesitant, That’s Not Resistance — It’s Wisdom
You don’t need certainty to begin here.
You don’t need perfect theology.
You don’t need to trust a process.
You don’t need to commit to anything today.
If you’re tired, cautious, or unsure — this space was built with you in mind.
How These Four Elements Fit Together
These resources aren’t random or disconnected.
They create a clear journey:
The book, Out of Religion & Into Relationship, introduces the ideas.
SM² reshapes how you think and feel about God.
EK Tribes gives you community and practice.
Coaching helps you personalize and accelerate the transformation.
Wherever you are in your journey, you’re in the right place right now.
→ [Get the Book]
→ [Take the 5-Day Spiritual Mindset Makeover]
→ [Discover the EK Community]
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As you engage these resources, you may find:
You stop confusing God’s voice with religious noise.
You stop feeling spiritually “behind,” guilty, or disconnected.
You recognize what God is saying in real time.
You regain peace, clarity, identity, and inner freedom.
You begin living from relationship, not religious performance.
This is what faith was always meant to be.
Xavier LeMond
Author. Speaker. Bible Teacher. God Talks Certified Coach.
Welcome! In case we haven’t met yet, my name is Xavier.
I’m an author, coach, and guide for believers who want a real, personal relationship with God without the weight of religion.
From the earliest years of my life, I’ve known God as Someone I could talk to — not a distant judge, but a present Father.
Over time, I discovered that the God I encountered in personal relationship often looked very different from the God presented in church settings. That tension shaped much of my spiritual journey.
Through years of church involvement, denominational shifts, burnout, personal crisis, and eventually a direct reorientation toward the Holy Spirit’s guidance, I learned something essential:
God teaches, leads, and forms us through relationship — not rules, performance, or religious pressure.
That conviction isn’t theoretical for me; it’s lived experience. And it’s why I do what I do.
Today I help believers who are tired, hurt, confused, or spiritually overloaded, to reconnect with God in a simple, intimate, and deeply personal way — the way He taught me, and continues to do so every day.
Just as He wants to do with you.
Where You Begin Is Up to You…
Whether you start with the book, join the community, or dive into coaching, this journey is about one thing:
Helping you hear God again — clearly, simply, and without fear.
You don’t need more religion. You need real relationship.
You don’t need to try harder. You need to hear His voice.
You don’t need to walk alone. You were made for Spirit-led connection and Kingdom community.